Disagree without being Disagreeable

I miss my dad. He had a way of making each person he was with feel seen, heard and valued. Even those who were nasty. Even those who disagreed with him. Even those who had hurt him in the past. He found a way to see the blessing of our common humanity even when it was hard to do so.

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Jury Duty - A Voir Dire Prayer

I was summoned for jury duty last week and, if I'm being completely honest, I was feeling annoyed at having my carefully planned calendar upended. However, as I looked around at the faces of all those coming and going from the Justice Center, I realized that the lives of those involved in the cases we might be asked to hear had been upended a hundred-times more than my own short week of civic duty…

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Jonah's Fireworks & God's Grace

I have long been puzzled by the fourth chapter of Jonah. The story could have have come to such a tidy ending after chapter three—Jonah ran, returned, preached, and the people of Nineveh repented. The end. But no, the writer surprises us with one more chapter about Jonah’s angry fireworks, God’s boundless grace, a curious parable about vine & worm, and a final compelling question…

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Pentecost Pilgrimage

The experience of Pentecost feels quite similar to my recent experience along the Camino de Santiago where pilgrims from all across the world - speaking many different languages - gather together along one path. Yet each person is on their own journey, walking at their own pace, and seeking their own sacred way. When pilgrims pass one another, their common bond is understood and honored with the simple greeting, "Buen Camino!"

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No Whales Whale Watch

My expectations were high as we boarded the boat and headed out of the harbor. We all gazed at the open ocean and waited... and waited... and waited. No whales. Our guide had told us that whale sightings had been sparse this season, but that we would still set out with hope.

We waited... and waited... and waited some more. No whales. This was rapidly turning into a "No Whales Whale Watch" excursion.

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The Bottom Line is Love

As we journey together through Lent this year, maybe we can “give up” the temptation to envy, boast or dishonor one another and instead lean into the arms of God’s never-failing love.   

Ultimately, the bottom line is not what is most profitable, efficient or comfortable. 

The bottom line is love. 

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Epiphany Lights

I believe that this light-filled message of Epiphany is too important for just a single day. Although not “liturgically correct,” I like to consider the time all the way from January 6 to Ash Wednesday as the season of Epiphany when we remember that God’s light shines in the darkness…

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Advent Speed Bumps

During the first 5 years of Belly of the Whale Ministries (2014-2019), I had an annual tradition of sharing suggestions for ways we could slow down the feeling of "speeding" through December toward Christmas Day. For some reason I have gotten away from that practice, but am feeling like I could use some reminders this year…

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My Pro-Life Reflections

What does it mean to be "pro-life?" So often this question devolves into mud-slinging, insults and gross over-generalizations. I have been blessed with several conversations recently rooted in mutual love and respect even when we wrestled with our disagreements…

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